UK Census Meme...
Mar. 9th, 2011 10:04 amLike
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March 1961: Definitely a gleam in my father's eye; I'd be conceived late that year.
March 1971: Living in Latham, NY, having moved there in 1969. In third grade under, I think, Mrs. Ball. I believe I was reading a lot of Dr. Doolittle then, when I wasn't getting Oz books; this was the period when my Oz fannishness was really fully underway, and I had a complete crush on Polychrome, with lesser ones on Dorothy and Ozma. Doing lots of RPGing with my brother (yes, I know, RPGs weren't technically invented until '73-74, but we were doing "let's pretend" with rules and some form of stats by the time I was 5).
March 1981: Living in an apartment on Eastern Avenue in Schenectady, NY, having graduated from high school the prior year. I was living with Steve Reed and Ed Lord (
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March 1991: Living in Pittsburgh in a small third-floor apartment owned by Morry and Sondra Endres (IIRC), in my first year at UPitt's MSIS graduate program, having gotten in because of nigh-perfect GRE scores; not only did they pay my tuition and so on, they actually paid me enough to live on while I went there. While I would later share that apartment with Kathleen, at the time we had just started dating a few months before and were having a long-distance relationship which included writing stories back and forth, and long phone calls. I think March was the month of the $495 phone bill. I think I had just started going to the UPitt gaming club at that point, and was very active on Usenet (which I'd been on starting in the late 1980s). I was also running my friend Eric Palmer in a long-distance mail (not email) D&D campaign.
March 2001: Living at 2 Greenbush Avenue, my father-in-law's office which was also a residence, with Kathleen (pregnant with Gabriel) and our 4 year old son Christopher, and our then-friend Shelly Liebmann (who ended up self-destructing her life so badly that we later on had to kick out the woman who had once been like a second mother to Chris). This was quite possibly the low point of my life; living in someone else's house because I couldn't afford to live anywhere else, working for John Deep who by then was firmly on his course of self-destruction, having torpedoed his one GOOD business for his fantasy, and still unfortunately solvent enough to keep paying me; this was the only job that I ever had that it made me HAPPY to be fired/let go from. We were all depressed, irritable, and pressured. Gaming and online interaction was my only amusement and we had darn little else to look forward to.
March 2011: Today; I live in Troy, NY near Hudson Vally CC. I'm a multiply-published author, I have a good job with interesting things for me to do, I have four kids and a wife who has supported me through everything. My marriage has survived trials by fire and, I think, is now stronger despite (or perhaps because of) those trials. There are some money worries but no looming disasters (cross fingers). Things have gotten better, and I hope they continue to get better. :)